I have been the angry, unsatisfied and bitter
wife for the last nine years. I'm married to a man who has absolutely no
respect for the marriage institution. He has had more girlfriends than I
have changed my hair since we got married.
He started cheating on me months after our wedding in 2004 when I was
pregnant. And it hasn't stopped ever since. Every other day a different
girl, a different situation, a lot of drama. Initially he would lie or
try to cover up when I ask him questions or catch him but now he tells
me to go to hell and leave the marriage if I was no longer satisfied.
Well, I have four kids and I don't plan to be a single mother in this
kind of environment so I'm staying put in my marriage but I'm done
being the victim. Yes, I have started cheating on my husband. I am proud
to say I have a boyfriend who I have regular, satisfying sex with. And I
have absolutely no plans of being the faithful wife ever again. Once
this affair ends, I'm starting a new one. There's no going back now. As
long as he's cheating on me, I will be cheating on me.
I smile a lot these days and it's not just Jesus putting the smile on
my face. This is the happiest I have been in at least 8 years. And I
also discovered that quite a number of my female friends have been
cheating on their husbands for years now. Why didn't anyone give me the
memo sooner? Just thought to share my happy story. Xoxo Happy Lagos
wife.
